MATCH MAKING: For Men

Men sometimes assume they know too much of what a woman wants or what is good for her. In most cases, they take women as kids that must be given whatever the adult wants the kids to get. However, this cannot breed respect or love in a relationship. The only way to get the best of a lady is to understand her and try to find out what she may want, a part from what you think she wants.
If you want to earn a woman’s love and respect then you must know the following:
1. Sex may not necessarily be what wins her over to you. it may be for some, but do not assume that it is only sex that can make you win every woman’s love.
2. Listen to her too. She may actually know what she really wants in the relationship so why don’t you give her your ears.
3. All women are not the same and can never be. What pleases one woman may be repulsive to another. Try to be in tune with your woman and get her needs and desires.
4. She may not be ready for sex just because you are ready. Sometimes she may just give in just to please you, but please know that she may not be ready sometimes.
5. For women, sex is an emotional act. To them it is not just an act to satisfy physical need.
6. Intimacy with the person they love makes them to be easily injured if you take them for granted.
7. Some women get turned off if you demand sex frequently
8. Don’t assume that sex is the same thing as love. Sex may not get her to love you, though sometimes is a starting point.
9. They take sex as part of the relationship but never the main thing. To them, it is not the relationship, though it is part of it.
10. Foreplay matters a lot to women. Just don’t wait until bed time before starting it. A sexy talk in phone, a sexy text message, a good compliment, all combine to set the mood for a great sex.
11. As a man, you should know that if you dislike condom, then you must like pregnancy. You cannot eat your cake and have it.
12. Most women like intellectual stimulation. They prefer men who could challenge them mentally. They will readily open up for you if you could satisfy them mentally.
13. Most women don’t find it sexy to take off their clothes as soon as you are alone with them. It makes them feel unsafe. The feeling of not being safe is more if you are too eager for her to do that.
14. They put their hearts into the game. This is why they feel the pain more when disappointed.
15. Don’t just have sex with her. Try to find out her most sensitive part and give it attention.
16. Try as much as possible to be her friend first before the rest would follow.
17. Let her feel for you before the act, during the act and after the act. If you can do that, then she would declare herself all yours.
18. If you can, don’t try to satisfy yourself alone. She too wants to be taken to mountain top. And back. Don’t be that selfish to think of yourself alone.
19. That she wants to cuddle you, does not necessarily mean that she want sex.
20. When making love, cherish each moment. Touch, feel, caress her as if it would be the last time you would have sex with her. Women love to be cherished. They want to savour every moment of intimacy and not just a half and half attempt. Make her feel she is all that matters at that particular moment. She will not forget you. ###