COUNSELLING

WHY SOME RELATIONSHIPS SUFFER

Esteemed followers of Soulmate, it is our pleasure to introduce this striking topic to you at this particular season of love. Today is widely believed to be lovers’ Day, “Valentine’s Day.

Anybody entering or contracting relationship has only one thing in mind, that is, to enjoy the relationship. What happens if the relationship is not enjoyable or is not working out well the way you intended it to work out for you? There might be a missing link to that of your mind-set relationship. Hitherto, to make a sound enjoyable relationship, we may look at relationship factors. That brings us to the topic proper, ‘why some relationships suffer’.

Some relationships suffer because of ignoring those factors that are the ladder to a good relationship. This might come from either partners involved in the relationship.

What are those factors?

One of the most important factor that fuels relationship to grow  or become enjoyable is trust. Where trust is jettisoned, it leads to an open suspicion in that relationship, if the distrust is coming from the lady, the man stands to suffer sexual denial with an attitude that the lady will never compromise with her man in all standards.

The man who is being suspected will suffer utmost rejection of the things he usually enjoys in the relationship.

Another thing the man will suffer from is lose of his integrity before the lady in question in that relationship, and if he loves her dearly, while she is bothered about him, he too will never have rest of mind of losing her to another man.

The lady may also compare him to some men that she has ignored their proposals just to accept him.

Even if the man is saying the truth, the lady will never ever believe on him, if truly she loves him with her soul, reason being that he had insulted her integrity of making the man her preferred choice.

She might also never forgive him the rest of her life; she might start calling him derogatory names she had never called him before since getting involved with him in that relationship.

Some ladies even will get sick where trust is established, if the lady sincerely loves the guy that is involved with her in the relationship.

Some may want to get involved with another guy that had showed her respect and regard with care. Trust in a relationship is one that carries all good things in a relationship. Tolerance, patience, regard, insincerity, unfaithfulness, uncaring and unloving attitude are what visit those that have lost trust in their relationship.

Lack of Support From Relations

This is another factor that affects relationship. Relationship is something that goes with emotion of all involved in it.

Many a time, the lady or the man may tend to visit his or her love. On such occasions, the reality of emotional shock could be felt when a relation of either of the partners shows his or her venom against the partners involved.

Sometimes, the man would be threatened to leave their daughter alone. In some cases, the man is arrested and detained in police station without just cause. In such moments, the lady will be crying and have issues with either the parents or the elder brother that caused this set back.

Some established cases had it that some were even killed because of the man involved with their daughter. This is to prevent the man from marrying their daughter. Where the man is not killed, sometimes he is injured. When this happens, the lady will never have the opportunity to express her true love to the man she loves. The man will not have that freedom to enjoy that relationship.

We have more to discuss on this topic, that is the more reason we are inviting you to send your contribution to 08082649997 so that we will publish your contribution and reactions next edition.

Use this opportunity to pour out your hearts on whatever issue that is bothering you concerning relationship. You can also react or contribute in any of the topics we have treated in our past editions.

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Response: Thank you Rita from Eleme for admiring my style of writing. To answer your question, candidly, I am just blessed by Yahweh to have cut across almost every type of writing in the pen profession.

I see myself as a servant to you through the pen profession, so my creator might have seen my humble mind set and had blessed me with the flair to write everything writeable. Please call me if you want to be like me, I will introduce you to the secret.

All the same, thank you very much for appreciating my little contribution to society and mankind.

I wish you well, as I urge you to keep reading The Newswriter as our best is yet to come.

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Dear Editor, I am fascinated by the way you authoritatively write about the star services. After going through some of your editions last year, I could not help but admire your wisdom and courage. I love you, please how do I get to know you, I want you to be my personal adviser and friend?

Patience texting you from Lagos State.

Response: To Yahweh be the glory that you appreciate the good work of Yahweh in your brother’s life. The courage and wisdom come only from Yahweh. The second part of your question, I will answer you in this way we do make research while also praying just to serve you better.

You can see me if you really mean what you said. I am already your brother and friend. Just call me and book appointment with me and the deal is done.

How many years are you?

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I am Kambal from Ivory Coast; I am reading you from the internet every Sunday evening.

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Well, I will be forty plus 5 March, 2013, so send me my birthday gift if you really appreciate what Yahweh is using me to do for people like you.

All the same, I wish you well Kambal. Keep your text coming always. I appreciate you my new friend.

Star Services

Pisces (Feb. 19-March 20th)

The Pisces Dislikes

(a)        Imitations

(b)        The obvious

(c)        Being criticized

(d)        Know-it-all

(e)        Pedantry

Pisces Likes

(a)        Solitudes to dream in

(b)        Mystery in all it guises

(c)        Anything discarded to stay discarded

(d)        The ridiculous

(e)        Like to get “lost”

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