When to say yes I do
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As human beings we cannot live in isolation. So shall man and woman plan their lives in order not to regret in their life time, sexual, emotional relationship in marriage.
Life is a level playing ground for each and every one to choose whatever he or she deems fit that could bring joy to all.
Relationship in marriage is a choice and that is why the room of courtship is open to man and woman. During the period of courtship, the man or woman have every opportunity to study, to know all about themselves. And that is the reason if either of the partners find their expectation not being met, they can say ‘no I cannot live with you as your wife or life partner under the umbrella of marriage.’
So the period of courtship dictates when to say yes I do or not. The period both man and woman are coming together in the name of relationship only give both man and woman the privilege to express who they are to each other, to experiment every aspect of life about themselves, emotionally sexually, socially, economically, religiously, etc.
It is only when both are satisfied with their findings about themselves that they could come out to invite the public to their wedding. Prepare to boldly stand before the rest of the public in the altar of the holy of holies to declare that ‘yes we have found ourselves compatible, suitable and okay hence we are prepared to say yes I do.’
You can agree with me that the two who did not do this or pass through this required stage, or programme, do experience an embarrassing marriage. This is a common happening in the society today.
To say yes I do means you have learned how to manage your emotions, you have taken care of your sexual emotions, you have mastered and could manage your social, emotional problems in time of crisis, because whether one likes it or not these problems must always emanate.
For you to say yes I do before the rest of the members of the public, it means you are ready to manage a high crisis situation including finance in the marriage you have vowed to spend the rest of your life. Whether there is money or not you are in, no backing out.
The most common situation and conditions that drive partners to say no I will not marry again are, finance, sexual deprivation, family interference, no child in the marriage, going after another woman or man, wife battering. We may take these topics someday.
The Soul Mate is advising those in courtship about to declare to the public ‘come we are saying yes I do in so-so day,’ to please go inward strictly to still cross-check themselves whether they have graduated from the school of courtship and have being certified by these factors listed in this piece.
Time is on your side. It must not be conditional for you that you must get married now because age is no longer on your side. Marriage is everlasting, for better or worse, in sickness or wealth.
Star Service
Dear Editor, I am Vivian, 21 years old, female, texting from Port Harcourt. Please tell me my star and suitable star match in relationship, also my best option for career and job opportunities. I was born 2nd November.
Ans: Dear Vivian, if you were born on 2nd November, then your zodiac sign is crab and your star name is scorpion (those who are born under the date of 24th October to November are called scorpion in the zodiac order.
Your most suitable star match in your relationship life is Taurus person (Taurus = April 21 May 20)
Your most suitable career and job opportunities are in literary pursuits; whether library work or writing and any type of job/career that you may lay your hands. You can also excel in all forms of handicraft, medical practice. Also you can make it as a reverend sister, priest or pastor.
Herbal Service
How to know kidney problem
If your urine is thickly yellowish with fuming appearance know that you are having kidney problem. This is an indication that your kidney is getting weaker or is weak.
This may bring about hypertension or diabetes. Men may have their libido affected negatively as they would not satisfy their partners in bed sexually. It would further generate hypertensive condition on the person.
Advice: Please go for kidney test without delay. While you eat mainly vegetable soup half done, green fruits, avoid sugar, smoking and drinking. ####
Allanso Jonathan A
