Counselling: The value of a Woman in Marriage

A good house wife is a blessing to the man and his families, such a man will never have regret the money he spent in having her as his wife.

The value of the woman in a marriage is what every reasonable man expects in his life.

But unfortunately not every woman knows her value in a marriage. If all women knows their worth and value in a marriage the Nigerian society will be paradise to all.

The woman is like oil in a machine in marriage. The woman value in a marriage could not be compromised. The scriptures described the woman in a marriage as the moulder of the character of the man; in fact, the woman is the shaper of the character of the man. The same scriptures asked who can find a virtuous woman. For her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her so that he shall have no need of spoil, she will do him good and not evil all the days of her life- proverbs 31:10-12.

 

The Woman As Keeper Of The Home

She works tirelessly to keep her home under sun and rain for the well being of her household. She labours to see all is well with her home, Proverbs 31:13-29, she seeketh wool and flax and worketh willingly with her hands she is like the merchants ships, she bringeth her food from afar. She riseth also while it is yet night and guideth meat to her household and a portion to her maidens. She considereth a field and buyeth it with the fruit of her hands she planeth a vineyard. She girdeth her loins with strength and strengtheneth that her arms. She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night. She layeth her hands to the spindle and her hands hold the distaff. She stretcheth forth her hands to the needy. She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet. She maketh herself covering of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple. Her husband is know in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land. She maketh fine linen and selleth it, delivereth girdles unto the merchant and she shall rejoice in time to come. Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come. She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and her tongue is the law of kindness. She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also and he praiseth her. Proverbs 31:13-29.

The woman as the Motivator

When the husband is down or is low spirited, it is the woman (the wife) that comes up to motivates and encourages him to face the challenge ahead of him. Same her children draw strength in her motivation in all challenging situation in their lives in all stages, while growing up to face life. She takes the blame of her children failure because she is the first teacher and character moulder of her children’s lives. The woman in all standard teaches diligent in the family, the pillar and encourager of good habit.

The Woman As The Moralist

The woman is the guide to her husband and her children. She guides every step of the man (husband) and her children to blossom into responsible citizen in the society. She values the law of the land and holds it tenaciously to her heart as she impacts it to her household on daily basis.

In simple term, the woman is the basis of the home front well being, if there is peace in a family, the woman is the one that is responsible. The world would have been a glorious place to enjoy, if every woman knows her value and role in the lives of men on earth. No wonder great leaders of the world today are the products of great mothers, who had invested much moral and impacted in them the fear of Yahweh from their cradle.

Name one great world leader who does not have a great mother behind his success. Still name one great world leader who does not have a great supportive wife behind his life success.

Women are society builders, hence every woman existing in the world today should know this great fact that the world betterment is based on their realization of their value and worth in the lives of their husbands and their children.

 

Questions

How Do My Man Build Sperm?

Dear Editor, my name is Prisca, 28 years old in courtship with a man, my man’s problem is his sperm are so watery and I want to have a child for him, how is he going to have thick sperm for me to achieve my dream of having a baby for him.

Response: My dear sister Prisca, if I may contribute to this your question, I will point out one silent but important thing in what you are about to go into.

(a)        According to you, you are in courtship and you want to have a baby for him, won’t that be dangerous for you?

(b)        How are you sure that your man you claimed will marry you after you have the baby for him? Frankly speaking, if you would only take to my advice, your wanting him to have thick sperm is good but not for the purpose in which you are texting me.

Why not first allow him to marry you officially before thinking of getting a baby for him or are you conditioned to have a baby before marriage?

Though, I am not a doctor, your man should be eating groundnut in much quantity complemented by thick okro, moringa seeds and vegetable soup on a regular basis, I hope this could help him build thick sperm. Besides, please see a qualified doctor for diagnoses.

 

She Sleeps Around

Dear editor, I am Emmanuel texting you from Port Harcourt, I have a beautiful lady of 29 years, whom I have promised to get married to this year, but her problems is she sleeps around, despite the way I pamper her with love and care. Please advice me what should I do to retain her because I don’t want to loss her to another man.

Response: I feel for you my brother, such is life, the one you love most will be the one to shatter your hopes and aspiration. I can see you love this lady a great deal. If you could be certain, are you satisfying her in bed? This question is important, women are so emotional with sex, whatever you give them, if you are failing in this area, you could not be compromised with if care is not taken the money you spent on her is being enjoyed by another man who is satisfying her in bed.

Secondly, she might have a spiritual problem which you could not stop her no matter the love and care you are showing her.

But candidly, I am advising you never you say you don’t want to loss her to anther man.

The beauty of a woman looked upon by men always lead them to serious problem or death in some cases. I will advice you to rather pray and fast spiritual to solve that problem of your love because I can see that you are in love with her seriously.

But above all know that she might not be your speck sometimes never fight for what is not yours.

Goodluck

 

Star Services

The Pisces Most Suitable Partner In Marriage, Career/Jobs And Luck Days and Month

The Pisces most suitable partner in marriage relationship is the scorpio  (Oct 24-Nov.22).

The Pisces is sure to excel in career cum job line in singing, carpentry, lawyer and field of medicine (either nursing, pharmacist or doctor). The Pisces could also do well in educational related pursuit, like clerical, reverence (Priest or Pastor) a contractor, an architect or soldier.

Luck Month And Day

Months  May and September

Day  Wednesday -These are the most favourably day and months of Pisces (Feb 19-March 20)

 

Herbal Services

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