With heart full of happiness the Soul Mate column is saying thank you to all of you who have found the column so useful to your relationship lives, most especially those of you who are married, not forgetting the singles and searching too who have sent me personal text messages to solve their problems.
We promise you in our last edition to treat the negative effect the missing or letting go of your first love brings to our relationship.
Missing or letting go of your first love means more than the ordinary in our relationship, if you entered into a relationship with a young lady or man for the first time in your live. If you have entered into a relationship with a young lady or man for the first time in your live, you are bound by law spiritually whether you meant to seal the relationship to the altar or not. It is counted against you that you have made that lady a woman and the man a man. This is because the woman is meant to know a man once in her life, when she is ripe enough for that purpose; same the man is expected to know a woman when he is man enough to take care of the responsibility of handling both domestic and emotional problems.
Above all, the man is expected to raise a family for himself; hence sex alone could fulfill that purpose. Take the case of Adam and Eve. Adam was created mainly for Eve. Eve too was basically for Adam to fulfill that purpose, so it becomes indirect challenge to Yahweh’s direct authority where men marry themselves, same with women.
If you have known a woman or a man as your first men with whom you had “SEX” the law says you become his wife or her husband and whether you like it or not, Deuteronomy 22:29. this is spiritual, a direct concern of Yahweh the creator of man and woman.
In order to fulfill or correct this mistake done or caused by the man, the law says, you have married already hence he or she becomes your partner for life.
Where one lets go of the other, he or she faces all sorts of ugly experiences. I know many do not know this all important law watching and controlling all mankind on earth. Remember what you sow, same you reap, an immutable law that could not be bribed. Some of the effects are: some left their first love to marry rich partners but only to cry later. Some women marry handsome and educated men leaving their first love behind to search for their partner and end up not having long lasting happiness.
Many are married but not happy because the law at all points of their marriage is penalizing them for the offence committed by them. Both men and women are guilty of this law hence they always attribute their unseen problems to wicked old man or woman in their families.
No witch or wizard can affect you if you have corrected your mistake by coming back to your first love. Take this and text me, that is those who have the opportunity to do so. No more, no less.
Most marriage is unproductive because of this penalty. It takes an anointed prophet of Yahweh to ascertain and avert such calamites that comes with such cases. Let it be known that nothing goes for nothing in the spiritual law because it has been set or laid down as a foundation from the beginning of creation.
Soul Mate is only interested to point out this basic, silent, important factors bedeviling our relationships based on our mistakes. We are not done yet. We will also talk about your “Divine Right and You”.